Letting Go

After a relationship that we really want to work ends for whatever reason, it’s hard for some people to let go. Let’s face it, we’re only human so we should know that our feelings will be hurt and our heart will seem to be broken in two. Some may hold out a small bit of hope by calling, sending a number of text messages, sending letters, crying and begging that other person for another chance to make them happy and to show them that they truly love them with all of their heart ( I should know, because I have done it). Now people on the outside looking in, may say that you’re being pressed, you’re whipped or acting plain stupid. Those people “on the outside looking in” don’t know a damn thing on how you feel, so they shouldn’t criticize you they should talk to you to help you deal with the heart ache. You may be hurting on the inside and not showing it on the outside. Either way remember this, only you can tell you what to do and how to feel. Don’t act a fool by displaying anger and wanting to bring harm to anyone, because that can only make matters worse. Just try real hard to get over that person and everything will be okay. I know it’s easy to say and hard to do, but continue to believe in love and everything will be fine. Trust me I have learned from experience.

Final Thought: I don’t think that there’s anyone on the face of this earth, who wants a relationship that they truly believe in, to end and let go of that special person. If you are use to seeing that person on a regular bases and spending time with them, the letting go part becomes more difficult. The memories are hard to let go, the thought of not talking to that special person and the thoght of not kissing them, makes letting go extremely hard to do. Has anyone ever had that gut feeling when you see something or someone that reminds you of that special person that you had to let go? Well that feeling can break you way down and destroy you, if you let it. I have a few suggestions: (1) remember you have one life to live, so enjoy it, (2) if the relationship was meant to be, maybe just maybe you both will get another chance to start again, (3) let go and let GOD find that special person to share your life with. Thanks for reading…

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2 thoughts on “Letting Go

  1. This is absolutely the God’s heaven truth. It’s so hard to let go when sometimes that person is everything you ever wanted….Or so you thought. In my opinion and you know I have several. A really hard break up is like a death. Though the person is still alive and probably well it seems like you have to allow yourself to mourn to heal. Take the time to cry…slang snot whatever….but in a fair amount of time you have to realize your worth and though it’s cliche but truly their lost. 🙂

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